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Never Again

Living Sober

I remember just before I hit 90 days sober being asked if I’d ever drink again. I will never drink alcohol ever again.” Right from the early days […] Never Again was first posted on November 19, 2022 at 9:18 am. I remember saying very clearly at that time, “No.

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DV – When the Teen Fights Back

Gary Direnfeld

He knew she was going to get it again. He never struck his dad, but his intensity and mid adolescent size was enough for his dad to back down. He threatened his dad that if he ever hit her again, he would kill him. Mom never left his father. He worried that this time it would be worse. He got a bat and took on his father.

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The Victoria Climbié Inquiry chair reflects on social work, 21 years on

Community Care

While the response from ministers again was positive, the report’s impact was critically undermined by its timing. Later, as a social worker, he never went on a home visit without being transparent about what the purpose of his visit was, he says. “I’m We’ve never had such a means of easy communication as we have now.

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Alcohol Consumption. It adds up.

Gary Direnfeld

Some folks you never hear from again. That really means he hasn’t considered it yet. Some people remain there. I suggested she attend individual counseling for herself as well as Al-Anon. Are you following me on Facebook yet? If not, you are missing many more posts! I am Gary Direnfeld and I am a social worker.

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A Reflection on Depression

My Brains Not Broken

But depression puts those things out of reach, making you feel less than once again. We get frustrated that depression seems to have outsmarted us once again. We outlasted it once, we’ve beaten it before, why is it coming back yet again? It feels like it will never end. Your timeline is irrelevant in this scenario.

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The Hit that Reverberated to Adulthood

Gary Direnfeld

With that she dismissed the impact of domestic violence and downplayed the fact that with that hit, she and her mom learned never to cross him again. He continued to be a mean bully, but never did have to hit again because the fear from the one episode was enough to maintain his control on them.

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Recognizing the Limits of Perfectionism – Part One

My Brains Not Broken

How do I make sure I prevent it again? When something happens, you try to figure out how you got there, and if it’s something undesirable, how you can prevent it from happening again. What could I have done to prevent it? On its head, I don’t think any of these questions are inappropriate to be asking.