Sat.May 20, 2023

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One’s Anger Meets the Other’s Abandonment

Gary Direnfeld

He went to counseling just as she wanted. He had to address his anger. He learned to take a break if conflict arose. With that break he would compose himself, figure out his feelings and then return to discuss matters more reasonably. Sometimes it took a matter of minutes, other times a few hours, on occasion a day or two. No matter how short or long a break he took to figure himself out and no matter how reasonable he returned, she was triggered by his not staying fully engaged and needing this

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Becky, 12, tried to kill herself. The care she received? Eight weeks in solitary | Louise Tickle

The Guardian

Children with serious mental illnesses are being locked up in a modern bedlam In January, a 12-year-old girl was locked into a “seclusion” room in a hospital in Staffordshire. The room contained a platform with a mattress on it, a moulded basin and toilet, and nothing else. For almost 24 hours a day, her only human contact was through a hatch in the door.

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Depression. It Can Creep Up on You…

Gary Direnfeld

It’s insidious, meaning it starts slowly, not even noticeable at first, yet it is harmful. You may have never experienced it before. Without realizing it, your thinking shifts. Despair slowly creeps in. You seek to make sense of your feelings. You attribute them to your situation or relationship of both. It’s a depressive episode. The first.