Although Departed, Carry Their Voice With You

There’s something about the passing of a loved one who was your rock, your source of strength.

Even if they were a flawed person, if there for you, that was all that mattered.

With their passing it feels like you could never continue. You miss their support. You grieve and that’s OK.

Keep them more than in your heart. Think of carrying them on your shoulder.

Choose between their attributes such that the good parts can still influence and offer support.

On your shoulder, imaging hearing them whisper in your ear.

For any given situation, you likely know what they would say to you.

Hear it, as if whispered in your ear.

Carry them with you.

Your strength.

With that you respect and bring a positive legacy to their memory and their life lives within yours.

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Gary Direnfeld is a social worker. Courts in Ontario, Canada, consider him an expert in social work, marital and family therapy, child development, parent-child relations and custody and access matters. Gary is the host of the TV reality show, Newlywed, Nearly Dead, former parenting columnist for the Hamilton Spectator and author of Marriage Rescue: Overcoming the ten deadly sins in failing relationships. Gary maintains a private practice in Georgina Ontario, providing a range of services for people in distress. He speaks at conferences and workshops throughout North America. He consults to mental health professionals as well as to mediators and collaborative law professionals about good practice as well as building their practice.